You've found yourself the recipient of an unwanted divorce.
Your spouse may have just walked out, or left you for another man/other woman.
You will one day appreciate the pain for what it was…an opportunity to learn and grow.2. When a spouse files for divorce, your self-esteem can take a beating. Just because you are not able to make the relationship work with that one person doesn’t mean you can’t move on and find a loving relationship. This is the time to be good to yourself, not beat yourself up. It is likely, though; that you have some true friends you can reach out to at this time. Reach back in your memory to your life before that relationship. Were there places you wanted to go or new things you wanted to try? Take down old picture albums of the marriage, play “your” songs. Having a daily pity party is good in the beginning of your adjustment period, but you need to set a limit on it.6. Now may be the perfect time to look at other options. There are many “die-hard singles” who really enjoy living alone. Rebound relationships are never good for either person involved. And you can finally see your past as one long, blessed road leading you home. A post shared by Glennon Doyle (@glennondoyle) on Christian author Glennon Doyle Melton — known as the “ultimate confessional writer” for her honest portrayals of her struggling marriage, addiction and eating disorder — has opened up with another big revelation.A few Christian writers who champion LGBT rights in the church congratulated Melton on Twitter on Sunday night. Gilbert announced in September she was in a romantic relationship with her female best friend, just two months after divorcing over the summer.For having had love and lost can make a man or woman feel less confident that they will ever find a life partner again.For those looking to find love again after a divorce, there are tips that can help you succeed, putting yourself on the path to happiness once more by way of a strong, healthy and brand new relationship:1. A divorce comes with grieving, just as a death would.I suddenly found myself a single parent with three heartbroken adult children and two distraught teenagers.