Of course these are stereotypes and are not always true, and your experience will depend on the individual whom you meet, not on their culture or background.However that said there certainly are some common traits with Latina women and Latino men and it can help to understand these before you begin dating them.Although my own experience of dating in Colombia is really pretty limited (sob), I’ve canvassed friends of both sexes and have compiled a brief list of tips for him and tips for her in order to avoid heartbreak, dodge the STIs and have yourself a merry little Christmas.Girls are very unlikely to approach you, or make the first move.This goes especially for Latino women, who traditionally would stay living in the home until the time came to move into the home of their new husband.This isn't really the norm for Hispanic families in America these days but it's still indicative of the high value which Latin American culture places on family in the context of dating.Sibling responsibility also plays a big role in Latin dating, as a young woman's brother is usually raised to be somewhat protective over his sister.
To some extent this is true, but the Hispanic and American cultures do have their differences, so take the right steps to make things work. Latino individuals are often very influenced by their family when it comes to who they date and for how long.
As I mentioned in my last article, male-female platonic friendships are considered far less common, particularly if the pair in question are single.
So, even while you’re not in a relationship with someone just because you went on a date, it’s important to know that going for a casual drink with a guy would be considered a date in Colombia.
It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single girl in possession of a job in Colombia must be in want of a date. Ostensibly a bar for foreigners to participate in a language exchange with Colombians, and actually a great way to make friends, after about 9pm it morphs into a free-for-all speed dating service between gringos and locals.
All across the city of Bogotá, and indeed the rest of the country, gringa girls living and working in Colombia are pairing up with local boys – at a staggering rate! Ask anyone about it, go and check it out, but don’t say I didn’t warn you.